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Articles > Self Improvement and MotivationJust Let Em Go!
by: Gene Simmons
I remember when I was just a little guy probably about 4 or 5 years old, I was fascinated by snakes. Not any particular type of snake just snakes in general. I remember being really curious about how they could move around so easily without any legs or feet. I remember liking the colors on the garter snakes that slithered through our Nebraska summer garden.
And I remember one day picking up one of those fascinating garter snakes and holding it right in front of my face so I could get a little better look at the colorful markings on its head. It was at that moment the unthinkable happened. In mere seconds, that wonderful, fascinating creature had transformed itself into a writhing, ferocious monster with a flickering, forked tongue and hypnotic eyes. What happened next? I dropped it, of course. Actually, it may have been more like a toss that part gets a little blurry. But I got rid of the monster as fast as I could! I let it go!
Obviously, the poor snake didnt really change into anything different from what it already was. But my perception told me it had, so I reacted to what I saw as a significant problem. I let it go.
Since then, Ive learned that monsters real and perceived come in all sorts of shapes and sizes. Most of them we cant physically see but we do experience the results of their presence and they are very, very real.
Our monsters have names common names. Here are a few: Fear, Guilt, Hate, Self-Doubt, Jealousy, Insecurity, and Anger. Theyre all slime-balls. They all have the potential power to control our lives and destroy any chance at a truly happy life. Any one of these monsters can freeze us in our tracks and until we recognize it and get it out of the way, were not going to be able to move on toward whatever better life we have waiting for us.
OK, do we need to stop for just a minute here? Yes, I just said whatever better life we have waiting for us. No, Im not talking about only a special, select few folks who might accidentally be lucky enough to get doused with one of Gods super blessings. Im referring to everybody who lives in a reasonably free society and has access to at least a smidgeon of printed or verbal information. That would probably include you, huh?
Yes folks, there is a better life waiting out there for every one of us. And this is certainly an oversimplification, but basically all we need to do is visualize it and then do stuff to get us there. Sure, some of that stuff will possibly include doing some personal reprogramming of our thought processes (theres plenty of information available to help do that), getting assistance and guidance from some experts (plenty of that available, too) and some level of investment of our time and energy.
However (speaking of reprogramming), unless we recognize and take care of any monsters that we may be clutching tightly to our bosom, were not going much of anywhere other than maybe sliding backward into our own personal snake pit. Hmmm, wonder why I just used that analogy? Probably a reason in my background somewhere.
Back to the monsters. How do we get rid of em? The first step is to recognize that we got em. Makes sense, huh? If we dont know one of these stinkers is hanging onto us and dragging us down, there certainly wont be any way for us to get rid of him. Take another look at their names and then take a close look at your thoughts and subsequent actions. See anything that rings a bell? I know, sometimes its really hard to have an objective view of ourselves so get an outside opinion or two from someone who you know will be absolutely honest with you.
Then once youve identified your own personal monster(s), the next step of course, is to get it (them) off your butt and out of the way. Now theres no way in the space of this article to talk about the various techniques for monster slaying. But here are a few quick helpful hints. One of the things youll likely need to do is take a real close look at your thought processes (theres that danged programming thing again) and learn how to change them. Again, there is a wealth of information available to you to do exactly that. Books, videos, CDs, self-improvement programs, and personal help in the form of numerous counselors and coaches. Its all out there waiting for you. All you need to do is just go get it.
Part of the modification in your thought processes will probably include learning how to face as in stand up and confront your monsters. You may need to dig deep into your better self to find your personal cache of courage that youll be using as your ultimate weapon of monster destruction. OK, lets be a little more honest. You really dont need to destroy these stinkers and I dont know that its even completely possible to do that. What you will need to do though, is at least take away any power that they have had over you in the past. You see, the only way any of these guys can restrain you is if you give them permission (the power) to do so. Withdraw that permission (let em go) and theyre about as much threat as a wad of discarded bubble gum.
One way to neutralize a monster is by learning to know it by a different name. A name that can be much easier for us to manage. For example, with a bit of mental manipulation, Fear can become simply Apprehension or Uncertainty. It shouldnt be a major problem being able to handle either one of those guys. Guilt can be transformed into Regret or Disappointment (as in past perceived misdeeds). Hate can be downgraded into Dislike or Disapproval. Self-Doubt can become a productive Self-Questioningwell, you get the idea.
So if youve been stuck in a rut and are about ready to climb out and move on toward your better life, be sure to take the time to check your personal mental wardrobe for monsters. Then let em go or at least transform them into a less threatening simple irritant - and move on to the life you truly deserve. It really is there waiting for you!
Oh, and the snake? Just another big ole worm
About The Author
Gene, through NuPathz.com, provides an easy reading self-help blog, articles and links along with affordable books and materials written to help folks find the road to a more enjoyable lifestyle, to pass on some of lifes secrets for survival in a chaotic world & offer a few smiles along the way. It's a down-to-earth, simple approach to discovering a better life. You can visit Gene at http://www.nupathz.com/
gene@nupathz.com
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